Whatever creepy is to you at the moment might seem normal someday (if you're talking about simple physical affection like kissing or hand-holding). Nothing wrong there, unless you don't feel comfortable with it. But he can't know that right now. You can simply use body language--turning away, taking your hand away, to stop that stuff from happening. God knows I've been shot down like that, but sometimes only in the very immediate; not right time though later it was.
Other women here can probably share their approaches about that. You have some control over what happens.
"Trying something" in a movie theater other than maybe holding hands is chickensh*t and loser-ish of a guy. He should be direct and upfront about it and do it in a place of being alone together (my favorite oxymoron) where you can talk about it if you're a serious person. He doesn't sound like the kind of guy who's going to get all over you in a theater.
 
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Last edited by imapatient; May 10, 2009 at 08:41 PM.
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