Hi Lillie,

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation, that sounds horribly difficult. I hope you find the support you're looking for here. I understand how you feel about lesbian love, in my experience the relationships I've had with women have been more demanding and challenging than the relationships I've had with men. It's pretty much nonsense that two women should understand each other better and have an easier time, if you ask me!

I'm very also sorry to hear that that relationship has ended up like that. I hope you know that you will be able to get through it and that it doesn't stop you wanting to love in the future. I totally agree with sky dancer in that suffering is an opportunity to learn, even though it pretty much sucks to hear that at the time! I have been there, and I think it's meant to hurt like hell. Otherwise it wouldn't be so real.

Hang on in there, you will make it. Take care, with love.

ps hurray for the lesbian community on here!