((((((((((((((vince))))))))))))))) I'm so sorry that someone so special to you was taken away from you. I know how very much you adore him. I think it's amazing of you to write this out. And early too; you're right, you don't want to be slammed on the anniversay. Vlad sounds like an amazing kid and as lucky as you feel to have had him in your life, he was very lucky to have you and kate.