Dearest ((((((((((( fuzziestwuzziestbearziest )))))))))))))))
I am so proud of you for opening up like you have. I bet it was hard, but you pushed through it and made it happen. Bravo!
Like the others here have said, someone else's terrible, horrible behavior towards you does not make you any of those things he said. In fact, you are just the opposite...a warm and caring soul with much love and support to be shared.
I feel honored to know you dear one!

sabby