Hi everyone,

I am off of work this week because I am changing jobs. I came home to discover my fiance and his mother's car outside our apartment.

I asked what was going on and he said "I'm leaving. My health isn't good and I need to go home." He is 31 years old. He has been acting strangely, not being affectionate, staying up until 3 am and waking up a half hour before work, not eating much, and drinking.

He recently found out he may not have a renewed contract with his job.

What really pissed me off was he gave no notice to me. I went upstairs to the apartment and found his mother and brother moving out his clothes.

He left the furniture and said it would only be temporary..I'm not sure I want him back.

We started dating 10 years ago.