No Lk you may NOT blow him up !!!! geez! I may... oops who said that! just joking - let me be clear - no violence of any way shape or form ok! and that goes for BC too ... and the attack bunny!

And i understand how you guys are keeping in contact because of the wife being a good friend and needing your support - you guys rock!!!

NO I dont think you brought it on yourself - like I said before I think if you had even looked in his direction BC he would have taken that as a come on - I am sure he will try to joke it off - as I said he's an AH and Ah's teend to be self centred and believe they havnt done anything wrong grrr

I have friends who send jokes like that to each other - they dont send to me cos of the SA in my past they know I find it a bit triggering - but its all done in a sense of humour that they share - thats ok - they are not dogs - and neither are you guys - dogs are kinda cute but cats rule ok!

cats rule cos dogs drool !!!!!

Peoples opinions are their own and thats ok - everyone is entitled to their own opinion - take what works for you guys and leave the rest

's to LK, BC all the brood and the millions of wonderful pets (including the attack bunny)