embrace whn I had to tell my T about self harm _ I was sure she would be disgusted wiht me , disappointed, and or angry - she wasnt - she was supportive and said that it was actually a win because I hadnt goen as far as I had wanted to - she said she didint want me to do it again and she would help me find other ways to cope but that she understood why I had done it and why it might re-occur - it was quite a relief!
I thought she would let me go - she didnt
let us know how you go
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts 
its how many times you get back up! 
(Thanks to fenrir for my Picture 
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
by Patrick Overton, author and poet