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>> to have no further contact <<
This is a toxic situation. Follow the attorney's advice and if you are moderately open with the husband - talk to him about it too. You need to be able to share this with him to get his support as well. Keep him in the loop on this.
Your situation seems a bit like my wife's "ex-fiance" from back in the 90s. However, you may have more posion in that ex of yours than hers. He is horrible (from what you wrote) and you probably should not have contacted him regarding the state matter.
I know politicians have a bad-rap in the news about their misuse of power. This is one more example of that. Avoid him as you would any other predator.
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