
May 13, 2009, 09:57 AM
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Sometimes the wound has to drain a little more before it can fully heal.
It's easier for me to say "I wasn't worth it -- I must've been defective" -- and blame myself rather than to admit to the reality that I wasn't cared for in the way children should be. I need to learn how to attach the anger and grief to the right people instead of -- as my first defense-- turning it back on me.
Maybe we can stumble though this together.
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