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(JD) · May 13, 2009, 10:23 AM

Of course you did the right thing, and good job of it too! When you, yourself was triggered ..yet you still did the right thing! I find that happens often ...being triggered doesn't make you a bad person who can't function.

I think you are becoming too personal in this. Don't fear telling what you saw, just don't read into it or elaborate on it.

I agree with Rapunzel, you saw nothing that constituted reporting to the authorities imo

It is more than what a generation ago would consider normal childhood exploration... but with today's movies and such, you just can't tell from where the information comes. Let the parents figure that out.

IF you have a casual opportunity to talk with the little girl, you MIGHT see if she shares easily how she learned to do "that." But you have no obligation to do so. Yes, it could be she is abused (and thus the parents won't get her help etc...) but it might just be her parents have xxx movies that she sneaks a peek at.

(((hug))) take care of yourself now...