As far as calling T goes, then I guess I am weak....because I can't bring myself to do it.

Thanks for the reassurance about the situation and how I handled it. I know a lot of my reaction is because of more personal reasons.

But, as an aside, her stepdad is the guy that participated in a sexual act towards me at my husband's invitation, when I felt trapped and couldn't get out of it. That makes me even more triggered by all this.