The constantly changing appointments thing would really tick me off. Even though you may like the person, they are not together enough to truly be a good T in my opinion. The occasional change is fine, almost every session being moved or cancelled is not fine.
If this T is working out for you otherwise, bring up the issue. I know it would be uncomfortable if it makes her upset, but you know what? Sometimes the truth hurts, even if you're the T! If she does get upset with you , that's the sign that she needs to grow up...and you need a new T.
I'm sorry your T is so unreliable...


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Originally Posted by hangingon
I know I mentioned having issues with my T cancelling a lot before but I still haven't addressed it with her because I am afraid it will upset her and that she will get angry with me.
Well, I got a call from her this morning saying she had to cancel my appt for tonight at 6 because of a family emergency. I was so disappointed as usual. If it's an emergency then I feel really bad about that. Yet, she has changed my appointment almost every other week since I started seeing her. Now it's really getting to me, I just don't know how to address her about it without her starting to not like me as a client. It's hard enough to trust as it is, I don't want anything else to come between that.
I'm just bumming, it's been a hard week as it was my mom's first birthday and mother's day since she passed away, and then I had to go in yesterday for an 1 1/2 brain and spinal scan. Just so much stress this week.
My T knows this was going to be a really hard week for me. I just feel let down every time this happens, if it were an occasional occurence then I would be sad but could understand but this happen so often that it's really pushing me further away from trusting her.
I don't know what to do, should I just find another T? I was really starting to like mine apart from this issue but I really need some stability from her.
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