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I know it's not all my fault but . . . .

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for trauma, there's usually a dissociation of thought and feeling. rational thought may or may not say "it's my fault." dissociation also extends to actions.

if we acknowledge "it's not my fault," then why do the things we do? because, we feel it's our fault.

how do you change your feelings about it? i don't know. when you figure that out, please let me know