
I find this pole amusing....what is it telling us?
Promiscuity??? doesn't seem to really be an issue unless you are still quite young. I have had few partners in my time........but then again I have been sexually active for 30+ years. Two of those were husbands which spanned over 25 years.
Husband died three years ago......haven't had a partner since......someday I hope to again.....I don't worry about adding another notch to my belt......I just hope to have those feelings again.
Enjoy it with someone who means something to you. Don't take it lightly, it isn't just about "the moment". And good lord - protect yourself.