So in April 2005 my step-mom found a cell phone bill with a phone number she didn't know and it was on there A LOT. so she called the number and the woman my dad was cheating on her with answered the phone. My dad then came home, drunk, and tried to strangle her - spending the night in jail for domestic violence.

So they, of course, got divorced and him and his "girlfriend" has been together ever since. This woman is unbelievable! I work 2 jobs and go to school. They came down to go to an honors ceremony for me and my dad pulled out his wallet to give me some money. She told him - in front of me - to put some of the money back! While she's paying for her daughter to go to school who still lives at home and doesn't pay for anything! (plus she's driving my old car which she didn't pay for).

Then, at thanksgiving, my sister made dinner for the whole family. She takes a plate, takes one bite, then makes a disgusted face and pushes the plate away and didn't have another bite. That, to me, seems extremely rude.

She talks bad about my mother when she doesn't even know her and does it in front of me! She talks bad about my sister and my brother in front of me. I just cannot stand this woman. She doesn't make an effort to be nice to anyone in the family no matter how many times we try to get to know her. Not to mention, we completely look past the fact that she (she was also married at the time) had an affair with my dad, who she knew was married!

Now I come to find out (from my sister, not even from him) that they're going to Vegas to GET MARRIED! I don't even know what to say. This will be his third marriage and she is, by far, the worst woman he has ever been with. She is rude to everyone in the family and has this arrogance about her like she's better than the rest of us! Now he's marrying her?! And, when he finally does tell me, I don't know how I am supposed to react? He knows I can't stand her and I refuse to let this woman have any part in my life at all but how can I say that to my father? I feel like I should just say "congratulations" and let it be but I know if I do that and I act happy about it she is going to try and act like my mother and I will not let that happen. She has been nothing but inconsiderate and rude to me, my mother, sister and brother and I just wish she would go away. Now she's here to stay. Ugh. I just want to scream.