First, this disclaimer:
The fine print that bringeth the bad news:
If you happen to spend 4 minutes of your life reading the following post and find it a total waste of your time, I am not offering you your 4 minutes back.
The fine print that bringeth the even worse news:
I couldn't give you your 4 minutes back if I wanted to.
(There! Glad we have that out of the way.)
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I'm pretty much with marjan, justfloating (especially #8), artie, and Peppermint_Patty. I'd like to add something, though:
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Originally Posted by valexand
Most guys get stuck with my age (32), which is something that I cannot change or improve for them. So, I'm probably forever stuck in living a life alone.
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It may not be your age that's turning them away. I've known women in their 40s, 50s, 60s and even 80s whom I've enjoyed being around but I do
not feel comfortable with the attitude that you express in this series of posts, I would
not wish to find myself the target of anything of the sort four years from now, and I would be willing to go pretty far out of my way to steer clear of it. The good news (if there is any) is that that's just me, and I'm not suitable boyfriend material for you anyway.
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My question is...does he ever think of how he ruined my life? Does he ever think of me at all and the damage he's done to me? He basically tricked me into spending 4 full years with him and lead me on to believe that we were going to get married.
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I have no idea what he thinks of those four years that he spent with you, but it doesn't sound as though he enjoyed it quite enough to stay longer.
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Does my ex know what he's done to my life? He stole from me the opportunity of meeting other guys...and probably a guy that might have loved me more!
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How does he live with himself knowing that he destroyed a life? ... I've been constantly wondering about that. I feel as if my life got stabbed and that nobody has gone after the criminal who did this.
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Originally Posted by valexand
Thanks guys but both of you are too young to understand...
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Originally Posted by valexand
I stayed with him because I was madly in love with him. I was as good as blind. Is it my fault that I was deceived? Really? I never saw it coming. He was too clever for me... this guy, or any guy that KNOWS how to play with genuine and unaware hearts is 100% guilty for manipulating and taking advantage of a person in love.
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I would have thought that if he was really that clever, he might have left even sooner.
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So not only did he put me through hell, not only did he leave me in hell but now I'm supposed to climb out of it all on my own....
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In an ideal world, who would do the climbing out of hell for you?
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