Deli!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This does not sound like a problem with YOU.
It sounds like T has a problem.
I am so angry that he said these things to you:
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he said he is being all "give, give, give" in our relationship and that there needs to be some reciprocality
take it or leave it, he didn't care - it was his job just to give them to me, not to see that i used the techniques.
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PLEASE don't blame yourself for his ignorance! There are good Ts out there, and there are bad Ts.
It appears you have a bad T. This is just ridiculous that he would talk to you that way.
I just want to pinch his head off.
PLEASE don't give up!
I think you should terminate with the new T - but can you find another T? Keep seeing pdoc?
Can you tell pdoc what happened with the T?
It really seems like the T handled things badly. Where is the caring and compassion????!!!
Your situation is really upsetting me. You deserve SO MUCH BETTER!!!
