(((((((((((((((((((Deli)))))))))))))))))))))

He said after FOUR SESSIONS that he is all "give, give, give"??!?!!!

That does NOT make you a selfish person. You are in THERAPY, LEARNING new ways to think/be. I would say four sessions in, you're right where you should be.

I wonder if you could see him for one more session before terminating to tell him how he made you feel? Just in case you were hearing him wrong or misinterpreting him, or he was just having an "off" day...

My T said something SO STUPID early in my therapy, like termination-stupid, and I went back and called him on it. He apologized and said he was tired and "not really in the room" right then. I was so mad still, but I decided to give him another chance, and obviously, we're still together so it worked out....

((((((((((((((((((deli))))))))))))))))))) thinking of you!