Yes, I do have other issues with my dad. Well, he has issues period. He needs a controlling woman that will nag him to get important things done, but then gets mad when they try to control other aspects of his life. I guess he thinks he can have one without the other.

I guess it just bugs me that he LETS her do that stuff. It would be different if she were completely rude but he said "don't talk to my daughter that way" but instead he just sits there. Like she has total control over him like a puppet.

And he says they are going to Vegas because he doesn't want to make a big deal out of it since it's his third marriage. But, to me, Vegas is a big deal. I think if he honestly didn't want people making a big deal about it he'd get the marriage license and hop over to the justice of the peace instead of flying out to Las freaking Vegas. Almost like what he's saying and what he's doing are total opposites.

And I can almost guarantee you that she's the one behind this whole thing. He told me that he would never get married again. He wouldn't have married my ex-step-mom if it weren't for her pushing it. And he wouldn't have married my mother if it weren't for her. So it's obvious that he doesn't want to and that she's forcing him into this because he would be happy being boyfriend-girlfriend forever.

Even though my dad can be a huge jerk sometimes I still don't want to see him get married to this horrible woman who just bosses him around and treats him like a 5 year old. When I say 5 yr old I mean stuff like ordering his meal at restaurants type treatment....and he doesn't do anything about it.

I don't know what I'll do. I probably won't know until it happens and I imagine I'll probably just say what I always say which is "right on" lol. I just really hope she doesn't take this as an invitation to act like my mother.