((((((((pixies))))))))
we have been doing alot of soul-searching in this vein.
it doesn't come easily--healing that is---
we went back to bible reading again and it has helped us.
been reading James first chapter.
Doesn't say we can't have the feelings, and feelings are good.
It isn't good to turn the old messages back on ourselves.
We are begining to realize, for us, that replacing the past messages
with the truth has really begun to sink in.
Perseverence, endurance, Integrity, and HOPE.
Those are our 4 words.

don't know if any of this is helpful.
these are just our thoughts and know we are hearing what you say.