We have not had sex for the last 3 years. He is 35 and says he has no interest in sex. How is that possible? I don't know if I can spend the rest of my life with no companionship. He sleeps on the couch. We haven't shared a room together for the last 8 years. This isn't normal, why is it happening. He had 3 affairs in our marriage and I forgave him. Why is he ignoring me. We dont even kiss or hug. When I ask for a hug, he complains. I try to be supportive. He is going to school full time and not working and I am paying all the bills because I want to help. I feel like he is disgusted by me. I don't know what to do. He won't go to a counselor. Honestly, if some guy came along and showed me any kind of attention, I would cheat in a heartbeat.

Sincerely,
Lonely