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I went to my preliminary mental evaluation a few days ago. During the interview the T asked if I had been mentally/verbally abused. I admitted that my mom was abusive but didn't mention anything about my husband because I'm just not sure how I feel about it. I've got a friend that says "yes, he emotionally abused you", but I just don't know if I should call it abuse. He took advantage of my trust by lying to me the whole time we were together, as I recently found out. Sometimes he would be really late coming home for one reason or another but never called to let me know he was okay, even though I told him a million times it scared the crap out of me. (I'm so very glad this is an anonymous site!) Several times he blamed me for his occasional erectile dysfunction -- he insisted I was the only woman he had ever had this problem with. What does everyone here think? Should I call it abuse or not??
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" I don't wanna be the girl that has to fill the silence. The quiet scares me 'cause it screams the truth. Please don't tell me that we had that conversation, 'Cause I won't remember, save your breath 'cause what's the use?
Aahh, the night is calling, and it whispers to me softly, "Come and play". Aahh, I am falling, and if I let myself go I'm the only one to blame.
I'm safe, up high, nothing can touch me, but why do I feel this party's over? No pain, inside, you're like perfection, but how do I feel this good sober?" (From the song "Sober", by Pink)
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