Please. Don`t fall out over this. I was not angry at oall or offended by you Camalot. In fact I was laughing at the irony of your reply. Not in a nasty way. It`s just that I found it amusing that it was possible to interpret what you said as, name calling me while you were trying to set me straight about name calling others. :-)
I have got the advice I needed and have taken steps to do something about it. If it fails, (Arnie voice coming up) I shall be back. The tendency to name call probably is childish and stupid. However, when you take your courage in your typing fingers and seek help, particulaly when your spelling is as bad as mine, what you need is not to be told how dumb you are, but how to stop being dumb. Lol. I know it`s stupid and damaging to others, that`s why I came in the first place. Thank you, all of you, for your help. Thank you also for putting up this site so that others can get help. It is a real lifeline.
Take care. I will drop by sometime to let you know how I am getting on.