i second the talk w/T about grounding and also am thinking of the dynamics of this. i don't want to overstep...i'm unable to come up with a good way to say this so i'll just say it (sorry just very insecure atm)...it would make sense to me to tell your parts they can sit with other T if that's in the moment of working through something with your other T or during a time when you absolutely needed to be present. But i'm not sure sending them to someone else necessarily sends the best long term message.
Please just take or leave what i have to say here because we all have to arrive at our own way of dealing with our facets, parts, alters, selves. For me, just me (sorry insecurity), i would think i should comfort my parts. i should tell them i care, i understand, get information, give information. i think i/we were told our feelings were unimportant. We were shown that it didn't matter how much we were hurt. i wouldn't want to perpetuate that with myself my self or myselves.
Anyway, i'm sorry for the long way it took for me to say what i wanted to say. Hope it makes sense and doesn't offend. i care for you and me, us and we.
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