I didn't read your other post, so maybe I am missing something.

But WHAT THE HELL? Usually it's not a T's job to pathologize someone in your life unless they are trying to make the point that the person needs to get out of your life. I could see pointing out patterns so that you can best learn to deal with them, but it doesn't seem like that was your T's point. And the T is not supposed to share that sort of thing with another T unless they are seeking professional assistance in how to best help their client. AND they shouldn't be telling you about the conversation, either.

Did I totally miss what is going on? Or does your T need a lesson on professional behavior?