With my situation, my neice grew up in a different part of the US and just recently I have the opportunity to get to know her. Within a few months I noticed a personality disorder and started to do research to which lead me to this site. I and not familiar with personality disorders nor know who to talk to so I can see if I can get help for my neice. Just seeing what I have seen in the past, I just know I would have to have all the facts, and find the right words to tell her that I would like to help her without getting into a fight.