(((mixedup)))
i think i would have felt partly validated by my T saying something like that, if that is how i felt about my husband also. i didn't read it as inappropriate until i read the other responses here, and then i could see where they were coming from also.
i guess it depends on a lot more (your history in this relationship!) to be able to decide whether it was beneficial or not.
i guess the bigger question is - how do you feel about this now? do you agree that your H could be a serious threat, and if so, do you need us to help you make a plan to keep your safe? or did you kind of hear more the subtext of what was said - H is crazy - and find that that's what was being commuicated?
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