Treehouse, Glad you got what you needed , oh and I use to feel so abandoned when hubby went away to rock concerts for the wkend and such and in the early yrs of my 24yr marriage, I wouldn't let him go out withouth causing a row. Nowadays I encourage his hobbies and such and miss him but it doesn't take over my day like it use to, infact I quite like it now LOL!, but I do know what yoiu mean.