Miss C securely attaching sounds nice. Your dream reminds me of interactions what occur between my kids and I all the time.

Thinking of this makes me happy, sad, and worried all at the same time. It makes me happen because I KNOW my kids have healthy, secure attachments to others. Sad because I feel like I'm not securely attached to people. And worried because I wonder if I had this type of connection with my parents but some how just forgot it. I worry that 30 yrs from now one of my kids might be in therapy telling his therapist...my mother never cared for me.

I guess reading this post brings me full circle because it suggests that which therapy you might be able to recover and learn to securely attach or re-attach.