Sadly, what your BF is doing is abusing you.....you say he has kicked you out before & he promised not to do it again....you aren't doing anything to cause his behavior toward you....it is something that is coming from inside.
Sadly, there is no reason....not even for love....that anyone should put up with being treated so badly. If it is his meds, they a call to his pdoc to explain what is going in is a good idea, but personally, I wouldn't ever go back until he gets his meds straightened out & changes his ways.....or you will be living like this for the rest of your life.
Personally, I don't believe that any person should life to make another person happy when they don't do anything in return for your happyness......relationships are partnerships, 2 way streets,....anything that isn't that way isn't a good relationship & is better off left & forgotten except as an example of what not to get involved with in the future.
Obviously this is only my opinion.....but I think anyone who has gone through similar situations will have similar opinions.
Please take care of yourself.....sometimes we just need a little encouragement & touch of reality to really see what is going on in our lives because it's hard to see the forest for the trees.
Hope you can work through your situation & realize what really is best for you.
Debbie
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Originally Posted by che170
my bf called the cops on me tonight. He said he wanted me out of the house, so he called them. I don't understand....we had a great dinner, were watching tv, we are supposed to take a trip in a few weeks and i asked him if he were sure if he wanted to go, because i know vacations can sometimes be difficult for him and off he goes. i know I have to wait for the meds to adjust and get the right dose, but this happens often and i don't know what to do. Everything can go along great and boom....it's all different. Just this a.m. he promised to never kick me out again, then tonight he says promises were meant to be broken and he calls the cops. He NEVER did this before, he says I'm the one who is crazy....please someone help me to understand what is going on. i want to cry right now but I can't because it upsets him...please help.
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