You are all dancing around on the very issue I hoped you would find:

When we are not seeking to do harm, when we are doing the best we can, when forces outside our control cause a result that isn't so positive... there is no forgiveness necessary.

We don't have to ask for forgiveness when we didn't control or weren't responsible for the force that happened. Sometimes the cultural mandate implies that, regardless of the intent, responsibility will be applied.

Life happens. Could it be that mental unwellness is made worse because of the taking on of a burden that isn't "ours?"

You don't have to ask for forgiveness over things that you aren't in control of... we all know someone that apologizes for every little thing... I'm sorry. I'm sorry. . . when no apology is called for.... likewise forgiveness is not necessary when no ill will was created.