Yeah, the crappy thing is that I live 6 hours away from them. So when I am in the area, I'm usually only there for a couple days. So if I'm only there on the weekend, its pretty impossible to find them apart.

I talked to my brother today and he didn't know about them getting married either so he's only told my sister. I talked to him this morning before I left to come home and he didn't say anything. And while I was home I helped my dad with a roof to make some money while I was there and I had to go by their house to pick up my check and only she was there. She really didn't say one word to me or even look me in the eye the whole time.

I know I shouldn't let her effect my relationship with my dad, they just make it really difficult to do that when they're together 24/7. And I totally agree that one is going to cheat on the other (if they haven't already). He's almost 60 so I don't think he's going to leave her. He's pretty dependent on her now and I don't think he's going to want to deal with single life in his 60's and 70's. So this one might be for good - whether they're happy or not....that's a different story.