After reading over my post ... it kind of sounded as though I was belittling ADHD. I am not .... just trying to make the point that the bf obviously deals with a mental condition that he cannot control and turned to a much needed medication to treat. Then he tells me that nothing is wrong I just need to learn not to fly off. Very contradicting is all.

I don't know if anyone took it that way. If so, I apologize.