I totally understand the legal aspect of it - and we talked about that....The whole point was that I needed a few minutes of his time - and he wouldn't give that to me - but he had the time to send me those e-mails.

I made it clear that I was planning to make the call but NEEDED a few minutes of his time...so that I could disclose the info to DYFS in a way that wouldn't be so dangerous for me.

I am starting to think that there was nothing he could tell me to get me out of feeling like I'd be in danger....so he avoided it by pressuring me because he had no choice.