I always told my kids "When in doubt, DON'T." Only one didn't listen and he's the one that decided he'd marry the girl hardly out of high school. He knew he wasn't ready for the responsibility, didn't WANT to be ready, but stepped up to the plate anyway, missing all the fun growing up has to offer. He had to grow up before he was anywhere near ready.

Does he regret it? Yes! But he wouldn't trade the baby girl they had for anything. They've also got two boys, too.

I lost my virginity at 16, too. Yes, I regret it! I was looking for acceptance and for someone to love me for me. HA! Luckily, I didn't contract any deceases or get pregnant... then. The pregnancy happend down the road a bit. BAD CHOICE!!!

I don't believe anyone is ready for the emotional commitment having sex brings with it at that age. I don't think any but the most callus woman is ever ready for that kind of committment unless you're married.