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Ohhgg...my oldest boy is 11...I'm not looking forward to this...

Still haven't mentioned it to the wife. If I do, it may become more of an issue if he knows "everyone knows".
good point. Maybe you can tell her just so she knows & isn't...ummm...caught off gaurd but ask her not to say anything to him.
Some things I want to do (tell me if it's too much). I want to put on more parental controls on the TVs and limit internet access somewhat.
Good idea
Of course I can't stop his interests but I want to make it healthy before it becomes too "objectified".
Yes, if it all possible...YES!!

I don't really know how I'm going to address it yet...Probably just let him know it's normal & to keep it private...I don't really know what else to say about it.

LK