(((((((((((muffy & pegasus))))))))))))))
thanks both of you! I talked to some of our mutual friends today, and apparently it was already suspected that she had Aspergers before this even came up through a psychologist!

Who knew...
She will engage me in conversation, but when she asks me a question, they are ... rather shallow questions, like "I like your shirt" or "how is school". It's like she's at a loss for what to discuss...
Anyway - dealing with her random freakouts (she gets overly anxious over stuff, calls me crying at random hours because of her parents) and dealing with her random road-rage/angry outbursts is something that needs to change first. Before she drives all of her friends insane.
I'm her friend because I know she's a lovely woman. But she does act rather immature sometimes and it drives me batty.
thank you both again, I appreciate it.

I'm hoping once she actually gets treated for her ADHD and her anxiety, that she'll be easier to deal with overall...