Hi guys,

I'm not exactly sure where to begin, so I guess i'll start from the beginning here. This past week has been very hectic with work and all.

Regardless, my fiancee (we were engaged late december of '08) has got 4 days off in the week. She left for work Tuesday morning and came back Thursday night - her usual shift.

She rushed off to bed thursday night soon after coming home - mainly because she needed to be up early as she had volunteered her time to help decorate a parade float for a parade that was to go on Saturday morning.

So friday morning rolls around, I wake up and get ready for work and my fiancee is already gone. No big deal there - I knew she would be as she told me of her plans.

Though, it turns out that they didn't really start decorating until about 3 pm - she finallly got back home at around 11 Pm. Again, she rushed off to bed because she needed to be at the parade by 8:30 am, so needed to be up by 6 to get ready, etc.

So she goes to the parade - and is there for one hour. It's done and she goes w/her boss to tear down the float again. We were texting each other (the most we've talked since she's gotten back from work) during the afternoon/evening.

Then I texted her again to say I love you, etc... and I didn't hear back from her for like 45 mins. Not a huge deal. Really.. that's not. She finally did text me back and was like I love you always.. sorry, I was on a bike ride.

I figured bicycle ride w/her boss/friend. Nope.

She was on the back of another mans motorcycle - Her bosses husbands trucker friend.

Mind you - she and I have barely spoke in the last few days. She's so busy w/the parade stuff and hanging out w/her boss that she's no time for me lately.

Like I said, we've hardly said 15 words to each other from Thursday night until Saturday night when she is telling me about this motorcycle ride and how she couldn't refuse it.

Now, I KNOW that her intentions were innocent. I trust her w/my life and my heart.

I just don't think she should have accepted a motorcycle ride from her bosses husbands trucker friend and - I got upset w/her.

In all actuality, she did nothing wrong. She was just having fun while I was at work -working late.

It just seems to me that I may have over reacted, but I still see her accepting a motorcycle ride from a man when i'm not around and haven't been around her in almost a week.

That made me feel pretty crappy seeing as she's out w/a group of people she described as great, really cool - i've never met any of them btw - having a great time but she just doesn't have time for me because she volunteered her time for these activities. I have been feeling very left out of our relationship.

What do you think? Did I over react by getting upset? Should I have just let it go?

Feeling a lil confused at the moment -