Oh, Multipixie
If you only knew how much we all appreciate this post. We relate with empathy, love and much, much hope for all of U's.
We were terrified of that empty stretch too and it, at times, was that empty. Even our little old doggie was could hardly meet the lonliness factor.
We understand that our children must grow and move on and that they do is a testimony of your good parenting in this case. You both must be so proud of your daughters.
We don't think we understood the pure joy of the outcome of the relationship of our daughter till a few years ago we were presented with a grandaughter. First time in 70 years three generations of women in this family suvived to live together on this planet at the same time! We saw 'new hope'. But if anyone had tried to tell us then, well, let's just say my thoughts aren't printable.
We are sorry but we chuckled when you mentioned the comment 'lost in space' from within. We can relate and we feel so at home, as if we get it, Multi. We count ourselves very happy to know you.
We look forward to hearing of the celebrations when you are feeling more like hibernating.

H.