oh leslie...we r so sorry ta hear ur fears of bein alone...thats such a scary place ta b...we r 54, an din have myriam til we wuz 40...so we have a time yet with her...but time goes so fast an we r fraid that we wont b needed when she is 18 an then where will we go? we r so afraid of bein alone an so we can empathize with u about it...we dont know whats ahead but we just look one day at a time cuz worryin bout it is just too much for us ta deal with now...an sometimes worryin bout just one day is too much at a time too...so we r takin things moment by moment now...maybe we can sit with u an just b there for u so u can know somebody is there with u...if thats ok that is...b safe...know that you will ALWAYS be needed as a mother...even when ur kids r married...that will never change...an when they start havin a family then u will b needed too cuz they will want u ta babysit ur grandkids an then u can give em back when it gets ta b too much...just know we r here in case u want somebody ta sit with u...
abbi  
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