i have been letting this guy stay on my couch for a while...he would cook and clean a little and even paid for my phone bill, but the guy never even asked if he could stay. Apparently his pattern is a con, charming at first, then the next thing you know, he is laying on my couch watching bad tv all weekend long, and his weekends are 4 or 5 days long. i really do not like him and i want to live alone. He knows i am not suppose to have anyone living with me...and this is a tiny apartment. his behavior says to me... "this is what i do, i do not respect anyone elses rules unless there is something in it for me". I do not want to get into a verbal arguement...ptsd trigger. I am not afraid of him, but just to dump some anger, next time he leaves for work on wednesday, i want to lock the door behind him and never look back. thing is, i need everyone's support and feedback. Can you all help me with that?