Well, as I said - I KNOW for a fact that it was purely a ride on a motorbike.
Before I continue - heres a bit of a background: We've been living together for just about 4 years and were recently engaged. I'm an Auto Tech & she does Assisted Living.
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I did apologize to her for getting upset, but stood firm when I said I thought that was not something a woman in a committed relationship should be doing.
Even though it was purely an innocent thing - a simple ride on a bike that's really nice. At least it was for her.. Innocent I mean.
Regardless, I had a bike in my early twenties and what that meant was you were showing your buddies your girl. Sporting her around like a pair of $500.00 sunglasses. At least, that's how it was when I used to ride.
Her really close friend's husband also has a bike. I'm going to ask her & her husband what they would do - if her friends husband took another girl out on his bike, would his wife be upset? I imagine that she would be, but my way of thinking is sometimes off the beaten path.
All that aside, no conclusions have been drawn and I know she's committed to me and would not intentionally hurt our relationship in any way. She's much too sweet to be vindictive.
I do appreciate your reply.
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