thanks so much for the support. I will keep you all up to date. I think he is starting to realize he is not welcome here. I do not respond to his actions words or gestures. i act like he is not hear. I might even pick up the tv remote and change the channels when he is right in the middle of watching something. Yeah, i know, too passive agressive. Would not do it. But if an opportunity presents itself, i will tell him about the huge animosity. still kicking him out as soon as he leaves.