i did it! I had the guts to tell mr. Potatoe head to leave toda! His only response was "fine". He's dressing and packing his backpack. you know, he is slightly pissed but i am enjoying his discomfort...he's pissed because he can't take advantage of me anymore. He's gotta go stay at a shelter until he can find someone else to do this to. you know people actually do this for a living...did some computer research on this last night. Anyway, i can have my privacy back! Serenity here i come! i also want to thank you for your support while i fumbled through all this! safe cyber hugs to all. oh wow, i can see my couch again! and he is gone. i am happy dancing with you all!