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May 18, 2009, 12:32 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Hi Manda...
Often times I don't realize right when I switch. Usually it takes me a bit to notice that my behavior or thinking, or even the sound of my voice in my head has changed.
There are some people who DON'T know when they switch too. So it could be possible that you have been and not noticing it. Has your husband noticed you switching at all lately?
I also had a kind of observation to run by you too. I have been reading your posts and I remember a couple weeks ago (I think) you wrote a post saying that your husband told his brother about Li'l Manda....? Li'l Manda was pretty upset by this. Do you feel it is possible that this scared her...being outed to others...and she did go into hiding. Most alters are all about protection and safety and if she felt too vulnerable after being outed she could have gone deep in hibernation. Just a thought.
Just keep talking to her inside of you. Maybe read her some stories and let her watch some cartoons. Keep letting her know that she is safe, and hopefully, she will come back out eventually.
Your T may be able to help bring her back out too.
Take care!! 
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