Well he called me today and when he said "i forgot to tell you something when you were here last week..." I thought to myself "oh god here it comes..." then he said it. I guess they changed plans though. They're having a priest from a town just outside Dayton marry them next monday. I said congratulations and tried to sound surprised/enthused but I don't know how well I pulled it off since I'm not very good at lying to people.

I told him I probably wouldn't be there and he didn't sound too upset - I think he kind of expected that. I said it was because of work but we both know the real reason. But I figure, even if he KNOWS I hate her, if we don't openly talk about it then tension is set aside for the moment.

So I didn't say a word about me disapproving or not liking her or anything. I just said congrats and asked when and where. But if he ever tries calling her my step-mom....I will make a comment about that because she has no place in my life at all. But I think he's smart enough to realize that I don't want to refer to her as anything with the word "mom" in it.

Fool Zero - you think I'm balance cause we haven't met in person haha. And I'm all kinds of crazy so I'm sure we're the same in at least one of them lol