Thank you Starlite. I didn't mean to trigger you. But must admit that I don't really remember writing that comment. I remember the first part but not the second. .

I have had to work hard at being able to say 'no' to people. While I am better at saying 'no' to other people, I still feel caught up with my parents. Sometimes I feel like I want to totally cut them off, but I don't know that I want to do it for the rest of my life, and I don't want to be someone who doesn't have parents. They are supposed to be there for your special days. But usually they just make it more stressful, but then they don't understand what days are really important and miss those. Ok, now I'm ranting. But sometimes I just have to get out all those feelings.