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May 18, 2009, 11:03 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: east of the sun, west of the moon
Posts: 2,259
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hi purplang,
i do understand what you are saying. we've been in similar shape the last two years.
i think there comes a time when the parts inside holding onto all the pain and fear and horrors get tired and begin to lose the power to keep denying their misery. some even get angry and just want to get some help.
my system began to break down, get ill more often, have bad headaches and feel like crap all the time. when i managed to begin to see things from the insiders perspective and take care of their needs better, then they began to cooperate more.
if you feel miserable out here, guess how they feel stuck inside with the bad stuff from the past and no one to care that they went through such horrors and no one protected them or defended them from any of it (at least that was it for me).
the only way to permanent healing and workable solutions is through cooperative effort inside and out. i do know it is very hard and i sympathize, but the way out is through. gentle hugs if you want them, 
leslie and her pixies
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