wi_fighter, I'm sorry you're going through this. I was a divorced single mom and went through the threats and the insults. I hope your lawyer is aware of what's going on and can advise the other atty. to get his client to stop harassing you. I don't think judges want to take children away from their mothers. Plus, they take into account what the children want.

You sound like a great mom. Your ex undoubtedly sees that and is trying to wear you down. But that's what men do. You know what he says are lies; he is wrong about you and anyone who gets to know you will see that very clearly.

Stay strong and tell him to talk to the hand.