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Originally Posted by peaches100
I thought about it tonight, had a good cry, then decided to accept that I didn't get the nurturing I wanted as a child. t can't give me what i missed back then. I have to take care of my own inner child's needs, no matter how hard it is or how much it hurts not to have those needs filled by t. I am done trying to get it from t or looking to anyone else to fill that hole inside.
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I think its when we are trying to "get" the things we need that we do hit a brick wall, almost like chasing an impossible dream, but there are people out there that are able to "GIVE" you what you need without you having to try and "get" it. Have you talked this direct with your T about how you feel? Im not sure how long you have been with your T. But believe me it is possible to finally receive what we never received, and we do not have to take care of ourselfs alone, that hole can get filled.